{"id":1698,"date":"2008-10-06T09:27:00","date_gmt":"2008-10-06T16:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/blog\/?p=1698"},"modified":"2008-10-06T09:27:00","modified_gmt":"2008-10-06T16:27:00","slug":"1698","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/?p=1698","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>i had  missed my tram and had  conversation with the new girl who just got hired as a promoter.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>she told me she didn&#8217;t know much about her astrology sign so i started telling her, and then we were having a conversation where she was telling me exactly how her mind works because it lay along the things i&#8217;d described. she&#8217;s incredibly brilliant with calculation and analysis. in fact, she could do a lot with her life with this gift. i told her it&#8217;s a gift and she has to honor and take care of it. that a lot of people won&#8217;t understand it but will want to put out your enthusiasm because they feel threatened. she tells me how people are always trying to tell her she&#8217;s stupid and i tell her, i know, that&#8217;s the way it&#8217;s going to be for a while, until you figure out where you want to focus your gift. but just because they don&#8217;t understand it, doesn&#8217;t mean you disrespect it. don&#8217;t ever forget that you&#8217;re luckier than most people, and you can either use your abilities for good or not good. <\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>she told me that it was like i  knew her secrets and if i always talked to people this way. i said, some people. the right people. the people who need it because i get something out of this too, i learn. she said that she thought i&#8217;m psychic and i laughed. in a way, i said. i feel like i met god today, she said. i tell her more that she caught a glimpse of him, that the fact that i&#8217;m saying things which are secretly things she&#8217;s secretly held in means that it&#8217;s true, it&#8217;s real and she has to honor it. <\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>who are you?, she asks. <\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>a good person, i say.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>we talk a little bit and then i see my tram so i run across the crowded square and head home.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>if you relax your outlook enough to keep your own projections (and judgments) separate so that you endeavor to see with complete objectivity and positive regard, you&#8217;ll see that people tend to always have subconscious or unconscious ways that show what privately hurts them (sometimes even under their own self-awareness). if you can find a safe way to talk about it with them and trust the interaction, you&#8217;ll find that something beautiful and real emerges that gives you proof of god.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>i had missed my tram and had conversation with the new girl who just got hired as a promoter. she told me she didn&#8217;t know much about her astrology sign so i started telling her, and then 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