{"id":19,"date":"2003-03-21T00:29:00","date_gmt":"2003-03-21T07:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/blog\/?p=19"},"modified":"2003-03-21T00:29:00","modified_gmt":"2003-03-21T07:29:00","slug":"19","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/?p=19","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a name=\"91111061\"><span class=\"post\"> Well. We&#8217;re at war. I see that everyone is commenting on it. I really don&#8217;t have much to say. It doesn&#8217;t change the facts and I think for once, I&#8217;ll stop expounding in little circles until my tongue is lolling out of the side of my mouth like a dumb lap dog.<\/p>\n<p>I talked to Michelle today. She gave me a great quote:<\/p>\n<p><b>Friendship between women is often nothing more than temporary suspension of hostility.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I have a feeling that people sometimes think I dislike members of my own gender. It&#8217;s not true. I actually have a little too much love for everyone. But I have a hard time respecting some of the negative shadow aspects of the anima, mostly embodied in catty, passive-aggressive, underminingly hostile behavior. Men succombing to the anima can also exhibit these qualities. I just hate it. It&#8217;s not a fair fight. I&#8217;d rather get punched in the face than betrayed while I sleep. I&#8217;m just cautious about getting too near that crap because I&#8217;m hanging high on idealism, which is one skip away from utter cynicism.<\/p>\n<p>I watched parts of K-Pax today. I know a lot of people don&#8217;t like that movie but I actually liked it. Kevin Spacey, as always, is amazing and the psychological elements were very interesting. I&#8217;m still wondering why Linda told me that she thought of me when she saw it and thought that I would really enjoy it. Mental note: Ask her. The capabilities of the human mind (spirit?) never cease to amaze me.<\/p>\n<p>Oh yeah. I talked to my aunt and she told me that I have to get a formal dress for my cousin Albert&#8217;s wedding next month. I asked her what she meant by &#8220;formal&#8221; and she said, &#8220;Poofy.&#8221; &#8220;Like a prom dress?&#8221; I asked. &#8220;Something like that,&#8221; she said. That&#8217;s horrible. I thought that form of monkey torture was behind me. And I just know that with it being spring, the only kinds of &#8220;poofy&#8221; department store dresses available will be in pastel colors. <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well. We&#8217;re at war. I see that everyone is commenting on it. I really don&#8217;t have much to say. It doesn&#8217;t change the facts and I think for once, I&#8217;ll stop expounding in little circles until my tongue is lolling out of the side of my mouth like a dumb lap dog. 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