{"id":2622,"date":"2009-11-12T01:55:00","date_gmt":"2009-11-12T08:55:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/blog\/?p=2622"},"modified":"2009-11-12T01:55:00","modified_gmt":"2009-11-12T08:55:00","slug":"2622","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/?p=2622","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So at Daisy&#8217;s wedding, I realized I have so many cousins. I tried to add them up in my head, but I lost count. So I&#8217;m going to make a list:<\/p>\n<p>Mom&#8217;s side (2 brothers, 2 sisters):<br \/>Mike<br \/>Suzie<br \/>Ching-Wen<br \/>Linda<br \/>Jason<br \/>Bohr<br \/>Binh<br \/>Ray<br \/>Edison<br \/>Jonathan<\/p>\n<p>Dad&#8217;s side (2 brothers, 1 sister, 2 half-brothers, 2 half-sisters):<br \/>Miranda<br \/>Albert<br \/>P<br \/>Sammy<br \/>Sharon<br \/>Julia<br \/>Stephanie<br \/>Joanna<br \/>Ray<br \/>Anna<br \/>Heather<br \/>Ryan<br \/>Howie<br \/>Justin<br \/>other Ryan<br \/>Daisy<br \/>Danny<br \/>Joey<br \/>Yvonne<br \/>Gilbert<br \/>Linda<br \/>Mier<br \/>Steven<\/p>\n<p>2nd cousins:<br \/>Austin<br \/>Alicia<br \/>Devin<br \/>Tyler<br \/>Brandon<br \/>Avery<br \/>Grayson<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m probably forgetting some people. Add in the cool people who married into the family (Gilbert, Albert, Justin, Judy, Gina, Janelle) and family gatherings are usually giant parties.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m the 2nd oldest on my mom&#8217;s side (Mike is the oldest but he grew up in Taiwan, so all my cousins in the US looked to me as the oldest). 3rd oldest on my dad&#8217;s side. Many of my cousins on my dad&#8217;s side are by marriage through my dad&#8217;s older brother&#8217;s wife (5 sisters). They&#8217;re all tight, so we&#8217;re close to them, too. None of the cousins on my mom&#8217;s side has kids, and only Suzie has been married (and divorced. Rumor is she&#8217;s got a secret relationship with an Italian guy much older than her with a daughter).<\/p>\n<p>I always wished for an older brother. Or more siblings. It&#8217;s kind of isolating having only one sibling, and as much as I love my one sibling, it can be lonely because Michael can be such an enigma. But I do realize that maybe I was compensated, because having all these cousins is kind of like having a lot of siblings who just happened to grow up in different homes. Whatever little squabbles people have, overall, we&#8217;re a loud, happy family, and we support each other. Though beware the devilish streak. My family has a way of goading people into drinking games and getting them shitfaced. Particularly my dad and my cousin Albert. If you see them approach with a bottle and a gleam in their eye, beware.<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_iCMEyfnxjU4\/Svvfgvi8knI\/AAAAAAAAAok\/L_MNhi6g208\/s1600-h\/IMG_4032.JPG\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;\" src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_iCMEyfnxjU4\/Svvfgvi8knI\/AAAAAAAAAok\/L_MNhi6g208\/s400\/IMG_4032.JPG\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5403157931572892274\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>Man down!<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So at Daisy&#8217;s wedding, I realized I have so many cousins. I tried to add them up in my head, but I lost count. So I&#8217;m going to make a list: Mom&#8217;s side (2 brothers, 2 sisters):MikeSuzieChing-WenLindaJasonBohrBinhRayEdisonJonathan Dad&#8217;s side (2 brothers, 1 sister, 2 half-brothers, 2 half-sisters):MirandaAlbertPSammySharonJuliaStephanieJoannaRayAnnaHeatherRyanHowieJustinother RyanDaisyDannyJoeyYvonneGilbertLindaMierSteven 2nd cousins:AustinAliciaDevinTylerBrandonAveryGrayson I&#8217;m probably forgetting some people. 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