{"id":276,"date":"2004-05-04T23:35:00","date_gmt":"2004-05-05T06:35:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/blog\/?p=276"},"modified":"2004-05-04T23:35:00","modified_gmt":"2004-05-05T06:35:00","slug":"276","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/?p=276","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a name=\"108373895774294098\"><span class=\"post\">As a wise man once said:<\/p>\n<p>Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, YOU&#8217;RE cool, fuck you I&#8217;m out.<\/p>\n<p>Yep. I did it. Next month, I&#8217;ll finally get to do some traveling. And work full-time finding that friend with benefits. Or, catch up on writing, more likely.<\/p>\n<p>When I was working at UCLA on that couples project, our advisor always talked about how people could behave really badly or out-of-character if they were in bad relationships. Same with jobs. A bad relationship or job can completely change a person, giving this person an ugly shadow that overwhelms who he or she is. I&#8217;ve done pretty well, separating the crap from a bad job from who I am and my life outside of the office, but I won&#8217;t deny the stress it&#8217;s caused me, or my unhappiness and the anger. But still, to be professional and diplomatic, I won&#8217;t go into detail about specifics. But seriously. Today was a watershed day. My life is going to get better really soon. <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a wise man once said: Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, YOU&#8217;RE cool, fuck you I&#8217;m out. Yep. I did it. Next month, I&#8217;ll finally get to do some traveling. And work full-time finding that friend with benefits. Or, catch up on writing, more likely. When I was working at UCLA on that couples [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-276","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/sbl5mn-276","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/276","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=276"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/276\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=276"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=276"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=276"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}