i guess you should know i’m somewhere between the dumbest smart person you’ve ever met
and the smartest dumb person you’ve ever met.<\/p>\n
but then again, you probably already know that. it’s not like people can’t see me.<\/p>\n
i think i’m so good at rhetorical gymnastics that i do myself a disservice sometimes because i lose out on people willing to give me good advice or insight. or i miss opportunities or other people’s good intentions completely because there are certain areas in my life where i don’t expect help or good intentions.<\/p>\n
i have to get better at that. letting people help me. not assume i have to go at everything alone and then resent having to go at things alone.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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