{"id":8465,"date":"2012-10-29T00:34:30","date_gmt":"2012-10-29T07:34:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/2012\/10\/29\/8465\/"},"modified":"2012-11-09T01:05:29","modified_gmt":"2012-11-09T09:05:29","slug":"8465","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/?p=8465","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>German engineer has a PhD. Worked at Stanford. Interesting.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s also a June 25th Cancer. Cancers are tough for me. They&#8217;ve been all over the board but one thing they seem to have in common&#8230;they appreciate words. They tend to appreciate me. Supposedly they may be able to see through my facade. So many people mistake me for someone you meet &#8220;out there.&#8221; On the path to adventure. I&#8217;m best as someone you come home to. Someone you build a nest with, a safe harbor, and wherever I go I will always come home. That&#8217;s the best of me.<\/p>\n<p>He texted today. Within the range I predicted. Late at night. He said he couldn&#8217;t wait to see me again and asked if I had a few minutes to chat. I told him that I was already in bed and it seems like an inappropriate place to have a first phone conversation.<\/p>\n<p>I feel the way I usually feel in these situations. Will the red flags eventually come back to haunt me? If I am already unsure, is it best to keep looking?<\/p>\n<p>The financial analyst from Montana. That was the most comfortable encounter I had this week. Maybe I&#8217;m looking for a connection like that.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>German engineer has a PhD. Worked at Stanford. Interesting. He&#8217;s also a June 25th Cancer. Cancers are tough for me. They&#8217;ve been all over the board but one thing they seem to have in common&#8230;they appreciate words. They tend to appreciate me. Supposedly they may be able to see through my facade. So many people [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8465","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/sbl5mn-8465","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8465","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8465"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8465\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8513,"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8465\/revisions\/8513"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8465"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8465"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juliashih.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8465"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}