If you find that you’re draining yourself begging and fighting for someone to take care of you, this is a sign you’re really not taking care of yourself. You are fighting for something that simply isn’t there.<\/p>\n
Self respect, Julia.<\/p>\n
In a world of billions of people, if one person is not willing to be there with you, work with you, take care of you, why are you acting like there’s only one person in the world?<\/p>\n
When you find that one in a billion, he will be there for you because he wants to be here and he is. There won’t be any questions. There won’t be any fighting. He’ll just be there. And in your heart, you will feel peace.<\/p>\n
That’s how you will know when you have the one.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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