I was contemplating the ramifications of sending a text that said, one hug in greeting, optional hug at end of the night, no kissing.

As I was walking up, I put my shoulders back and remembered, I dictate this. No one’s touching me unless I say so. I remember Seattle. I remember, I got this.

And I did.

I don’t trust men who don’t ask follow up questions. It makes me think their interest isn’t in getting to know me.

I told him my time zone was off.

What time do you think it is?, he asked.

I felt for the numbers. 8:28 I said.

I think it’s 9 on the dot.

He checked his phone. It read 8:30.

Wow, that’s amazing, he said.

I could have sworn I saw what he’d borrowed from me in his hand. But when I asked him for it he said it was at home.

This isn’t the first time I feel he wasn’t honest. The first time was to explain why he declined an invitation to see me. This time, it was to ensure he would see me again.

So tired today. Exhausted.

Guys should know that if they give it up too early, a girl can lose interest, too.

My only rule is that you can only sit next to me on the team bus if I say it’s okay.